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Getting They/Them Pronouns Right Isn’t About Grammar
I want to admit something that might surprise people who know how committed I am to supporting LGBTQ+ kids and their families. I still slip up on they/them pronouns sometimes. Not because I don’t understand grammar, not because I don’t understand what non-binary means and definitely not because I don’t care. I know exactly how to use “they” in a sentence. I use it naturally when I don’t know someone’s gender. I know that non-binary people are not “confused” or “undecided” but
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3 days ago3 min read


Trans Day of Remembrance: What We Choose to Remember
Trans Day of Remembrance (TDOR), coming up on Nov. 20, is a day set aside to honour the lives of trans people who are no longer with us. Many were lost to targeted violence. Many were lost to rejection, neglect, or isolation. And far too many, especially trans women of colour, were killed because the world around them refused to recognise their humanity. We cannot speak about this day honestly without naming that reality. Some were also lost to the quiet, unbearable weight of
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Nov 102 min read


"Coming out" is just one moment in time, but it feels completely different depending on which side of it you’re on.
When your child comes out as trans, you're each living a different story. Learn how to bridge the gap and stay connected through change.
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Oct 124 min read


When Your Child Comes Out as Trans: Fear, Guilt, and Finding a New Way Forward
When my daughter came out as trans I thought I was ready. But after she left the car, I broke down in tears. This is the story of how I moved from fear and guilt to clarity, connection and a new way forward.
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Sep 253 min read
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